THE MAILBAG: Starting Conversations With Women, Part 2

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THE MAILBAG: Starting Conversations With Women, Part 2

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***QUESTION***

"Im a 19 yr old British guy who has had below par success
with women until recently. I haven't got your book or
anything but I read your email every week and although I
don't consciously set out to put into practice your tips,
just reading about things like the 'kiss test' and
'cocky/funny' has been stored in my head and has really
worked. I kissed 6 very attractive women in 2 days over
the weekend, a level I used to achieve in maybe a year!!
Your techniques are surprisingly fantastic!

My only problem is reeling the women in after kissing.
and progressing to dating, getting laid etc. Im just not
quite cocky and pushy enough I guess, and the girls seem
to go off me, how can I keep their interest?

Thankfully, H."

>MY COMMENTS: OK, let me just get this straight...

You haven't downloaded my book yet, but by just reading
my email tips you wound up kissing 6 "very attractive"
women in 2 days over the weekend, and you want to know
how you can keep their interest, huh?

Well, FOR STARTERS GO GET MY BOOK! Duh.

If I was in your situation and having that kind of
great success from these email tips, I would have
downloaded it TWICE just to make sure I didn't miss
anything!

You're asking a complex general question, and you need
to read my book for the basics first. Get it...

www.doubleyourdatingnow.com/ebook/


***QUESTION***

"David,

i am a 28 year old divorcee with a child. i was one of
those wusses and that is why i am divorced now. it took
me a long time and your book to figure that out. however,
i am a fairly good looking man and with your tips, woman
have seen me differently. my dating has increased and now 
woman come to me. unfortunately not the ones that i want
(hot and thin). i know that will get better in time with
more work. now to the point of this e-mail. i have this
girl at work that is a very mature 18 and she knows it.
she will never date a man her age because they are too 
immature. i started busting her balls a lot and she started
showing me all the tale tell signs of interest. however,
another girl at work told me that she was talking about me
and out of her mouth was that she is not sure of me
because i am a little old and more experienced than her
and i have a kid. what can i say to her to get past these
obstacles? i make no excuses for my son, i love him very
much. i know i have her on the brink!! what do i do? thnx
ahead of time for your wisdom and sharing with the rest of
us guys.

A., Hilliard, OH"

>MY COMMENTS: It's important for you to understand that
you don't need to "say" anything.

You just need to remember to do the things that make her
feel ATTRACTION inside, and she'll find her own reasons
to stay with you. Get it?

Forget logic, think attraction.

Play hard to get. Stop calling her all the time. Tease
her more. 

Don't you dare let any of her judgements about you change
how you behave! Stick to what works.


***SUCCESS STORY***

"Hi Dave,
 
Just wanted to let you know that I used my own version of
your personals ad on someone I liked online, and she just
ate it up! She wrote back with her own sarcastic response
which I really enjoyed (I like a woman who can dish it out
as well as take it!), and sent me her phone number without
my having to even ask for it!
 
I phoned her up, we made a date (which we had last night).
I kept up the funny routine, mixed it with "deep"
conversation, and by halfway through the evening, we were
holding hands; she also accepted a good night kiss from me.
We're seeing each other again this weekend. She's
absolutely great, and we just "clicked" amazingly well.
You're a genius man, thanks a million!
 
Here's a quick tip for a good cocky/funny role model: Check
out UPN's Sci-Fi series "Special Unit 2", shown on
Wednesdays. Watch the leading man, whose character is named
Nick. This guy is a master of the cocky/funny routine, and
you can pick up some great ideas from him. The writers of
this show obviously "get it".
 
Thanks again!
 
T."

>MY COMMENTS: Great job. Isn't it fun teasing women on the
internet and via email? Love it.

As for the show you're talking about, I don't watch a lot
of TV. Know where I can get video of the episodes? I'd
love to see it.


***QUESSTION***

Hello David!

Your book rocks! First here's what's working:
 
1) Acquiring emails has worked great. I've gotten two
dates with college aged women and I'm 39. Not bad eh!
 
2) Love the suggestions on communicating body language...
i.e....taking up more space and leaning back. I had a
friend who was an ex NYC cop and he played the role
perfectly. He was a natural and he received a lot of
positive attention from women by just showing up.
 
Question: I was dating this great woman and things were
moving along quite well romantically. I was reading your
book and not showing too much courting behavior, busting
her stones, and not being too available. She does have a
full plate right now...grad school, bought a new house,
moved to this location x months ago, blah, blah ,blah.

She gave me the cold shoulder one night at a networking
meeting. She called later and apologized and said things
were moving too fast. I said great and gave her about
four weeks of space. I called her and she said she was
ready to do something again and her plate had emptied a
little. She said she would call me the next day and of
course did not? What gives? I've of course moved on based
upon your jedi master advise, but I'm curious. Should
there be a next step and what should it be if any?
 
C."

>You must bust her balls to no end for this infraction.
It is your only hope.

And you need to quit with this "she had a full plate"
excuse, and any others you may have for her.

If a woman says she's going to do something, then
doesn't do it, call her on her integrity. It's time
that you learned to accept only the best from women.


***QUESTION***

"Dear David,

Thank you very much for your greatest work. 

Ever since I started using your techniques I have been
fairly successful with the opposite sex. I am
particularly fond of teasing women that they are trying
to seduce me. By doing this I establish a fait accompli,
which automatically transforms into reality. 'Mist
cleared' I would say, and your book should properly be 
described as the classic.

I have a question: what sort of job/profession do women
tend to prefer? I am an undergraduate student at a good
university, and I don't know which career I should choose
after I am graduated. I want to take women's preference
into account along with numerous other factors. The
alternatives I am considering at the moment are: lawyer,
naval officer and airline pilot.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated.

J."

>MY COMMENTS: You know, I thought that the email from the
lesbian was interesting...

You want career advice? You want little old me to tell
you what to do when you grow up... so that you can choose
the profession that will attract the most women?

What's the going rate for career counseling? I think I
like this job.

Let's see... lawyers are boring, naval officers are too
dull, and airline pilots get to fly planes all over the
world and hang out with women who are forced to meet
height and weight restrictions and wear flight
attendant outfits... hmmm. I don't know.

I guess you'll have to figure this one out for yourself.

And by the way, I'm really glad that you pointed out
that teasing women about being interested in you is
"establishing a fait accompli".

"uhhh, hey Beavith, big wordth are rad."


***QUESTION***

"Hi David,

You're ideas are AMAZING. I tried your street pickup
routine at the mall, the first few times I was nervous,
but once I calmed down and got the hang of it I ended up
picking up 4 women in a row within 2 hours! Now, I have
the power and I do the choosing.

The Question: Someday, I would also like to reach the
highest skill level with women. For this, one has to be
original and creative. About your 3 minute email routine
and the street pickup routine......How did you come up 
with them? Trial, error and analysis? In other words,
how do I go about creating my own cocky+funny routines
that are original and complement my 
style?

I highly recommend the book to your subscribers. Those
rules like "Never give a women a ...... answer", are
priceless!

You have truly made a difference in my life. Thank you.

Big Chief"

>MY COMMENTS: Thanks for your email. Making a difference
is what it's all about.

To answer your question, I figured out the 3-Minute email
technique by sheer trial and error. I used to have this
idea that if I could get women's phone numbers that I
would be "the man" and have no worries.

So I spend probably a year or so perfecting the art of
getting numbers (only to realize that there was a lot
more to it than just this).

In the process, I learned a lot. One of the most
important lessons I learned was that WOMEN WILL GIVE YOU
THEIR EMAIL AND/OR NUMBER WITHIN MINUTES OF MEETING YOU...
if you know what you're doing.

So the short answer is that I figured it out by figuring
it out in the real world.


***QUESTION***

"David, 

Let me start off by saying that you are the man. I bought
your book a little over six months ago and I have been
using the techniques with amazing success.  Last week, I
found out that your techniques work on any woman, anywhere,
anytime.

I was on vacation with a group of people and the first
night, we were all drinking at a bar.  One of the women I
had driven with to the vacation spot confessed to me that
she was gay and had a girlfriend.  This came as a complete
shock to me, since she had been digging my cocky/funny
routine the entire time we were together.  Well, I
continued to press the attack and did not give up.  I told
her that since she was gay, it didn't matter if she kissed
me.  It worked!  So, we started kissing and I used your
stopping technique.  Man, I really got her fired up.  By
the time we got back to the room, things were definitely
going in the right direction.  Needless to say, she now
considers herself Bi-sexual.

The only problem was that we hooked up at the beginning of
the week.  For the entire rest of the week, things were
weird. I want to know how to not let things get weird like
that.  I mean, is there some way that I could have kept
things from getting weird?  Its not like I want a
relationship from her, I just want things not to be
strained when I talk to her.  She is one of the coolest
people I have ever met.

Sincerely, 

K."

>MY COMMENTS: This stuff is unreal.

First you use the techniques to turn a gay woman bi, then
you ask me how to keep her from feeling and acting weird.

Um, helllooooooo?

Are you going to write me next week to ask how to convince
her to not go through with the sex change?

Maybe I should write another book called "How to date gay
women... for straight men (and how to keep them from being
weird, getting the sex change, oh, and how to keep them bi).

I think you're going to have to use your best judgement on
this one. But thanks for the comedy.


***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

"Hi D:

I am a female who loves reading your info on women/men
situations.  I have one that has stumped me.  A male friend
gave my number to a guy he works with.  The guy has been
divorced for about 3 yrs.  X-wife still lives in the same
town and they "get along". He is 43, I am 39. We started off
by him calling me and we talked for hours...he called me
everyday for one whole wk., we emailed pictures of each other
ahead of time and then asked me out.  We went on a very nice
date and I acted like a lady.  No sexual advances on either
part except a hug and kiss on the lips at the end of the
date. "I" didn't want to scare him off.   The next wk. he
called me every other day and we talked for hours.  We hit
it off pretty well.  All seemed great.  We had a lot in
common. His friend said he was on "cloud 9" at work and was
excited about meeting me and going out.  He had not been out
of a date in a "very long time".  All of a sudden he didn't
call and I had this feeling that something was not right. I
emailed him, he emailed me back...he said, "I'm sorry,
there's just no spark, no feelings like I want them to be". 
I'm sorry." What happened?  Do you think it was cold feet? 
X-wifey in the picture or what?  Help.  What should I do? 
Everything was great...I thought?

Signed,

Sad and Lonely again!"

>MY COMMENTS: OK, I have to admit, I only included this one
because I wanted to show that this stuff goes both ways. It's
all the same psychology!

YOU NEED TO NOT MAKE YOURSELF SO AVAILABLE!

You claim to be a reader of my newsletter, but are you paying
any attention to what's going on?

I mean, YOU'RE A WOMAN! You're supposed to know this stuff!

First of all, QUIT MAKING YOURSELF SO AVAILABLE, Don't talk
more than twice a week... Three times at the most. None of
this talking every day like a teenager! Sheeesh.


***QUESTION***

"Dave,

Let me just say that you are the man.  My friend & I both
started your book and advice around the same time.. We are
kind of like wingmen to each other, talking to each other
and giving each other input, and pushing one another go get
stuff done with women.  Well yesterday, my friend and I
were sitting in a college lounge, just eating... We
both notice this kinda cute chick with a Mac laptop.. one
of the new IBooks.  So he tells me "ok this is your
chance.. go get her".  So I get up and I ask her "Hey is
that the new Ibook?"  She says "yea".  I then responded "Do
they make that for guys too?" Naturally she cracked
up and we started talking.  Butter. Smooth. Got the email
and went on my way.  

Experience helps!!! Now I'm getting addicted!! I wanna do
it more and more!  Question though.. after reading your
various emails & advice, when going up to any random girl,
what would you do if she refuses to give you her email
and/or phone number, or if she says "i have a boyfriend"?
How would you respond?  One technique i saw, "what you
don't have email?" or "you don't have a phone? Cmon I'll
only call you 30 times a day" etc, but what else could be
done?

F."

>MY COMMENTS: I love your Mac comment. Verrrrry nice.

To answer your boyfriend question, I personally say
"Great, take care."

I get this same question many times a week, and my answer
is always the same... just say "next".

There are soooo many women out there. Why waste time
trying to be a home-wrecker when you could be out meeting
nice women who don't potentially have a psycho boyfriend
who wants to kill you and her both?

It just doesn't make good sense to me. Say "next".


***QUESTION***

"Hi David...

I've read your book and your newsletter.  I'm a fan.

Anyway, my success story and a question.

As I work on the net I use ICQ sometimes to chat to women. 
After reading your book I realised that I had an almost
100% "success" rate pattern with these women that I chat
to on ICQ. It was your humorous, cocky, slightly arrogant
pattern.

Basically, because these women are in another country,
and I'm not going to meet them by next Tuesday I don't
give a damn... and I just tease them in an Aussie way.
They LOVE it. You're right.

Now, my question.  How do I translate this success into
an OFFline world? I'm a 50 year old guy who prefers women
in their early to mid thirties, and I'd like to advertise
in some of the dating type sections in newspapers.
What approach would one use here?

Cheers

K."

>MY COMMENTS: If I were you, I'd try a direct, cocky and
funny ad that said something like:

"Are You Up For A Challenge? I'm 50, looking for a Brat
of about 30-35 who's ready to meet her match. Be very
attractive, because I'm very intelligent..." etc.

See how that works for you.

...and let me guess... about 1,000 personal ads are going
to run all over the world this week with those exact words.
How special.

By the way, if you've been reading these emails and you'd
like to get a better perspective on what I'm talking about,
then you need to download a copy of my online eBook,
"Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How
To Be More Successful With women And Dating". It's the
foundation for all of the comments that you read in these
newsletters, and it will help you meet more women and get
more dates! Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdatingnow.com/ebook/

...to download your copy now.

If you've read my eBook and want to REALLY get a world-
class education about how to attract women, then I'd
recommend you invest in my new CD Audio program. You
can listen to me personally teach over 12 full hours of
the most advanced concepts available anywhere in the
world on meeting and dating women. Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdatingnow.com/advancedseries

...for all the details. On that page you'll also find
several samples from the program, so check them out.

I'll talk to you again soon.

   Your Friend,

   David D.





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